Supporting Youth Aging Out of Foster Care

When my sister read the article that I just published at Focus on the Family, she commented, “I personally never considered how I could help youth aging out of foster care.”

That’s coming from my own sister, who hears me talk about foster care all the time, who has been a dedicated aunt to 13 foster children, and who personally has a heart for adoption.

If she hasn’t thought about transitional age youth, maybe you haven’t either!

The statistics on youth aging out of foster care are grim, but they don’t tell the whole story. There is great work being done to help them succeed, and many are overcoming the odds beautifully.

Here’s the article. I would be honored if you shared it!

Focus on the Family article

It’s Not OK

World poverty is not OK with God, and it shouldn’t be OK with us. 18,000 children die every day of preventable causes, but many of us wonder if we can make a difference in the face of such a grim number.

Listen to this episode to learn how people like you can actually make an impact on world poverty. We’ll answer:

  • What small and simple steps can help one person living in poverty?
  • What is a graduation plan and why is it important?
  • Is it better to focus on one issue or many problems at once?

Download the free eBook on this topic, The Remarkable Truth About Ending World Poverty.

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Helping Without Hurting in Short-Term Missions – Part Two

Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert’s new book, Helping Without Hurting in Short-Term Missions, takes the ideas of When Helping Hurts and applies them to short-term missions.

In this audio interview, co-author Steve Corbett discusses why short-term missions do not always have the positive impact that participants expect. He suggests ways to improve the short-term missions experience so that both parties truly benefit.

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Missed Part One of the interview? Find it here.

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Helping Without Hurting in Short-Term Missions with Steve Corbett

Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert’s new book, Helping Without Hurting in Short-Term Missions, takes the ideas of When Helping Hurts and applies them to short-term missions.

In this audio interview, co-author Steve Corbett discusses why short-term missions do not always have the positive impact that participants expect. He suggests ways to improve the short-term missions experience so that both parties truly benefit.

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This is Part One of a two-part interview. Ready for Part Two? Click here.

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If You Care About Orphans, You Must Understand Poverty

Orphan care goes hand in hand with understanding poverty. Why? Many–if not most–of the world’s orphans and vulnerable children have experienced devastating physical poverty.

If we tackle poverty, it’s possible to actually prevent children from becoming orphans in the first place.

Here’s an excerpt from a post I wrote for the Faith to Action Initiative, where I participate on the leadership council. Continue reading “If You Care About Orphans, You Must Understand Poverty”

Can a church participate in missions if they don’t have a missions pastor?

Yes, they can! Here’s an excerpt from my latest post over at Food for the Hungry.

Recently, I sat down with a pastor who wasn’t sure where to head with his church’s missions strategy.

“I know God is calling my church into missions, but we don’t have a missions pastor on staff,” he said. “I don’t even know where to start.”

My pastor friend is not alone in his predicament. Many church leaders contact my colleagues and me with similar thoughts.

  • “My church wants to add a partnership in Africa, but I don’t have time to manage a new missions project.”
  • “How can we involve our whole congregation in global missions without a missions pastor on staff?”
  • “We need a global strategy that complements our local outreach.”

Read the full post on the FH blog.

My Kids Are Like Duct Tape

My husband hit a milestone birthday this year. (I won’t tell you how old he is, but here’s a hint: it rhymes with “warty.”)

A few months before his birthday, I had given a speech at my local Toastmasters club called “My Kids Are Like Duct Tape.” He said that his only birthday wish was for me to record that speech on video.

Here’s the result. Happy birthday to my husband, the kind of guy who puts orphan advocacy at the top of his birthday list. What a guy!

Do Mission Trips Help or Hurt Development?

I first discovered the beauty and vast scope of God’s world through short-term mission trips.  For me, interacting with another culture on an overseas trip to the Philippines with my youth group was a critical moment not only in my own discipleship, but more specifically in shaping my life purpose toward holistic development.

Of course, thinking about my early travels in hindsight has given me a different perspective on why I went, what was accomplished, and whether I could have done some things differently.

I have realized that I got more out of the short-term team experience than I contributed, and not in the cheesy way that most of us first say it when we return from a trip (“I blessed them, but I’m really the one who’s blessed!”). Yes, I had benefited, but possibly at the expense of those whom I thought I was serving. My team required a lot of time and focus from our hosts, who were already overwhelmed with their ministry responsibilities. But I’m not sure that we furthered their ministry goals at all.

In When Helping Hurtsmy friends Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert liken the relationship between Western visitors and majority world communities to a dance between an elephant and a mouse. I’ll let you guess which partner is the elephant.

Given my early missteps with short-term missions, you might be surprised to hear that I believe in them. Working at Food for the Hungry, where we stick to the best, most sustainable development practices, I’ve watched dozens of communities benefit (yes, truly benefit) from teams who have visited from the U.S. We measure this success not by the enthusiasm of the American team members, but by the transformation that our local, indigenous staff gauge on the field level. Over and over, we are seeing that our short-term missions inspire hope in the community, encourage the local church, and help to move forward the development goals that community members have set for themselves.

But success on mission trips doesn’t just happen. We’ve identified a critical mix of elements necessary for short-term teams. They include community-initiated projects, working alongside community members (everyone contributes!), rigorous screening and training of team members, and a long-term, sustainability-focused program that is much broader than the team’s visit. (There are other important factors, too. Check out the Standards of Excellence in Short-term Mission.)

Today on the Food for the Hungry blog, I wrote about the physical projects that short-term teams work on. One big criticism I’ve heard of short-term missions has been that just the cost of the team getting to the field location could pay for bigger and better projects in needy communities. Today’s post is an attempt to show why such thinking doesn’t consider the whole picture. Check it out on the FH website.

There’s so much to say about short-term missions and how to optimize their benefit. I’d like to write more about this topic. Specifically, what would you like to hear more about? Let me know in the comments or via the contact form.

Two Churches that Inspire

Happy New Year! Over the holidays I wrote on the Food for the Hungry blog about two churches that I visited in December. Both churches were sharing child sponsorship with their congregations for the first time.

One Church – Arizona

 

One Church, Chandler, AZOne Church is a newly planted church in Chandler, Arizona.  The reason I’m so impressed with One Church is their decision to partner with world missions early. Rather than waiting until they have grown to a certain point or purchased their own building, they are starting with a heart to share God’s love among the world’s most vulnerable people. Read the rest of what I wrote about One Church on the Food for the Hungry blog. 

Antioch Church – Oregon

Antioch Church in Bend, Oregon wins the award for the coldest place I’ve ever visited. The December weekend that I visited was abnormally cold for them too, so I wasn’t the only one complaining!

Antioch Church, Chandler, AZ

During the Antioch Church service, members from their recent mission trip to Ethiopia shared about their trip. One quote that really stuck with me came from my new friend Alia, who had wanted to travel to Africa for 20 years. When she finally went, she found herself beautifully broken.

“Jesus taught that He was always present,” she said, “not only with the poor but in the poor.”

You can read more about my visit to Antioch Church here.